49: It’s a skill issue.
So I saw a tweet about how “hoes” get wifed and good girls stay single for long, and I must say it’s honestly a pattern I’ve noticed for a while now, I mean since my school days.
Can I start by saying I think it’s unfair that society is mentally conditioned in a way where women can’t chase? All that’s left for them is positioning, so they can be noticed. Unlike men who can actually play the number game; asking about 20 girls out, at least you will get lucky 😂.
Most women feel like it’s too risky or not demure to actually speak to a guy they fancy, and most men find it cheap or don’t know how to handle the situation when a woman make advances at them… but that’s a story for another time.
I honestly just want to speak on the disadvantage this brings. So far, in my ability to speak to as many women as I like with an intent to date, I’ve built the necessary skill same way most men have been taught how to provide. But as the society gets woke, evolving to world where more men are looking to 50 things as opposed to be the provider, we are also seeing a climb in men without partners, but that again isn’t what I want to talk about.
Why do the bad women get wifed up and the decent, God fearing women stay single without a partner. My opinion is that it’s a skill issue. The video on the internet showed a man and a woman kick boxing as a way to bond, some women learnt how to watch football, gym, etc. But for most women, it’s hard to find partners with mutual interests that aren’t a masculine behavior.
How many women don’t curse the act of men watching men chase after a ball for 90 minutes, or why is he so fixated with this console, but you would rather want him to binge watch k-drama with you. If you don’t know how to work a man, prayer alone and decency won’t help you catch and keep one.
Most people are just beautiful but not fun to be around. What is the conversation about when you hang out? Do you do or say things that sparks joy?
I honestly believe it has always been a skill issue, and all these bad bitches, while they were wayward and doing all those morality bankrupt activity, they acquired a lot of skills on how a man prefers to be treated.
But hey, this is just my own observation, and I might be wrong
It depends on the metric, is marriage the goal or a godly healthy marriage? The bad girls are getting wifed up but what kind of marriages do they get into? A man who requires constant "entertainment" or manipulation to stay engaged likely lacks the emotional depth for a stable, lasting partnership.
Yup! Even Pastor Iren said this in one of his teachings.