51: The lost art of being soft.
Hard guy wan finish everybody, very anyhow thing.
You know, that’s how i just finished running and i called a friend I haven’t heard from in a long time, and she was so happy that i could feel the joy: appreciating me for calling, I couldn’t even react properly. I had to use sarcasm to move onto another conversation, then the worst thing happened. This modafoka brought back my attention to it and asked that i should accept her compliments and appreciation. Fck, lol.
I think God is also using it to teach me something o, because the night before that incident, i also made a post on my IG story, telling people to ask me any question o.. Na me give dem permission ooo.
that’s how one gentleman asked me, why do I support Barca, and my respond was very Mena like, lol. I answered, saying WHY NOT? Do you know that i thought about that answer in my dream, how ridiculous it was and borderline rude. Na so i wake up for morning and revisited it o, explaining how it was because of ronaldinho etc..
Why is everyone so hard… even you, shut up, we are all the same, don’t remove yourself lol. Person go tell you say you fresh, you will water it down by saying “Me wey never chop” or when they say your body TEA, you’ll say CAP. Just accept the simple compliment or appreciation.
Going forward, learn to recognize those moment, and allow yourself say Thank you, it means a lot to me. Because we are still the ones complaining that people don’t give people their onions, but the onions wey dem don give people in the time past wetin dem use am do?
Do you know how to receive compliment? Or i should give you a hard knock on that your stubborn coconut head 😂? Or maybe you want us to fry egg first before you accept say you sef actually Dey try and you no small?
All of us, same same
This was a good read! Thanks for sharing Mena.